Should a Woman Propose to a Man?
I am a slow walker but I never walk backwards.
Wow! that sure breaks the natural order of things, but what the heck! Change is constant, right?
Won't propose to a man myself but if a woman feels she's met her man and he's taking too much time in popping the question, she may as well do the honors.
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Why not? If the need arises.
But it is advisable for the woman to understudy the man in question to see that he is matured enough. Proposing to an immatured guy will only lead the relationship to a fiasco and the woman will definitely be taken advantage of.
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A woman needs to be a woman!!!.Proposing to a man is not logical and in my own opinion it should be discouraged.However,if a woman felt she is in love with a guy,she can position herself.................. I am very sure you know what i am talking about.
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@ Jibowu!
You are very correct in your opinion!
However, it is based on "Ideal Situation". Many guys out there have refused to marry because of the harsh economic situation and the ladies as well are not getting any younger! Moreover, we have more women than men (2006 population figures).
Simply put, the number of men who are ready to marry/settle down is a far cry from the number of women who are equally ready. So any lady who gets the opportunity to "hook" a potential husband will not wait a second extra to go for it.
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In my own opinion, i don't see anything bad in it, we are in the 21st century and things are changing from what it used to be in our Father's time; (For good & otherwise).
But i'll advise any lady who wants to do such (me i can't, i don't have the liver) to take time to understudy the guy (as Dagunro said) and be sure she's not taking a step she's going to regret,
And having expressed herself; if the guy turns her down, to retrace her steps and not to linger around and make a fool of herself, if he wants her, he'll still come back to her.
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. <br />Your character is what u really are, while ur reputation is merely what others think.
Ideally, there is nothing wrong with that.
Life is what you make of it.
WHETHER 21ST CENTURY OR NOT, THIS IS AFRICA MY DEAR AND NO MATTER HOW WE TRY TO EMULATE THE WESTERN LIFE, THERE IS ALWAYS A LIMIT. WE CAN NEVER BE LIKE THEM IN EVERYTHING, MY ADVICE, NO MATTER HOW MUCH A LADY LOVES A MAN, SHE SHOULD NEVER PROPOSE TO HIM, MOST MEN WILL NOT UNDERSTAND IT NO MATTER HOW MATURE HE IS.
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@Jeanie!
NO MATTER HOW MUCH A LADY LOVES A MAN, SHE SHOULD NEVER PROPOSE TO HIM, MOST MEN WILL NOT UNDERSTAND IT NO MATTER HOW MATURE HE IS. - I don't think so!
That is where maturity comes into it. Do you realize that some men are very shy? They only speak to you through body language. If you the lady understands that, You need to "push start" them before they get cracking!
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@Dagunro,Originally Posted by Dagunro
Are you a shy guy?
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. <br />Your character is what u really are, while ur reputation is merely what others think.
@Florafab!
Not in the least!
I was just expressing my observations in some guys especially in school.
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Seems I was missing out all along.
I am a slow walker but I never walk backwards.
@coolguy,
Missing out on what?
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. <br />Your character is what u really are, while ur reputation is merely what others think.
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