Haaaaaa. You want to use your hand to ruin your brighter future......small time,u would begin to move from 1 mountain to another,causing trouble in ur church or Mosq,and family. Remeber the story of Jacob & Esaul. If that's not enof then your brother..... Judas.He did(betrayed) just exactly wht u'r anticipated and gone for it.Who tells you that u dont have a better future than the woman in quest. Pray with her and refer her to where her solution is.She demanded ur solution in ignorance.You can't help her......sorry.