Topic: Is it right for a man to depend on a lady for his financial needs?

nobody owes anybody a thing..not even ur parents or God owes u a thing once u step into here....everything from anybody just is but a priviledge...a man should not depend on a lady for a thing neither should a lady depend on a man for a thing...whatever u want work it out...maybe u dont know yet ..we pay most fora lot of thingwe think to be free..borrow this perspective u ll feel less badoften, have more frnds, lesser foes,bear lesser grudges,n be more effective...

@Kemistkris

Are you sure?

Did you say depend on a lady for financial needs?

Hmmm. I pity a man who tries to or does that. It's not about ego but God himself never made it that way.

Women in their nature will always refer to the times they were of help to you as a man especially if something goes wrong between you 2.

Although as a married couple it is inevitable; but it should not be a constant practice in the marriage.

The bottom line here is: Men should learn to be independent, no matter the circumstance. The ability to weather the storm in all circumstances is one of the factors that makes a real MAN!

@ Dagunro!

Intresting I like that.

U R VERY RIGHT DAGUNRO. A MAN SHLD ALWAZ BE A MAN. IT NOT GOOD FOR A MAN 2 DEPEND ON A WOMAN ESPECIALLY WEN THEY ARE STILL DATING. SOMETIMES IT RESULTS TO DISRESPECT AND INSULTS. A MAN SHLD BE ABLE TO PROVIDE HIS NEEDS. THATS WHAT MAKES A MAN STAND OUT WITH DIGINITY AND INTEGRITY.

What of if a man cannot help it?

Originally Posted by coolguy

What of if a man cannot help it?

Then He's not fit to be called a MAN!

Are you sure Dagunro?


Ones income is not always a function of his struggle.

Originally Posted by coolguy

Are you sure Dagunro?


Ones income is not always a function of his struggle.

In this part of the world; Nigeria in particular, INCOME is the strongest base by which a lot of people measure a MAN!

It is not right for a man to depend on a lady for his financial needs.A man must work and meet not only his own needs but also that of his family and love ones.A man that can not provide for his family is worst than an infidel.Although things might be difficult occasionally,especialy when a man just lost his Job in such case the man should trust in God and i know him he will never let you down.