A FEW OF MY TOTS....

It occured to me how often we seek people who would love us, people who would appreciate the person we are, people who would fill the empty spaces in our hearts and lives. And yet no matter how often we think we have found them, we never seem to be satified or fulfilled.

You know why?
Cos we seek from others only what we alone can give ourselves.
To truly love and be loved you have to first love and honor yourself.
Learn to appreciate the person that you are, for you are a unique being, there's no other like you. Constantly affirm your own personhood and individuality. Build up yourself. Be your own cheerleader.

Once you are able to appreciate yourself, you will attract into your life only the right kind of people and will also learn to sincerely love others without overcrowding them or demeaning yourself.

Remember, by being good to yourself you set a standard that people aspire to reach with regards on how they treat you.