Does true love really exist I think it doesn't.
What do you guys think? >:( >:( >:(
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Does true love really exist I think it doesn't.
What do you guys think? >:( >:( >:(
True love exist, but for you to get one or the right person you yourself must work on your self and ready to show true love :-*.
True love exists.
GOD is giving us true love...if not where we 4 dey???
How many of them dey.
No pepe no love.
God's case is different God is perfect we are not.
4 better 4 stay 4 worst 4 go.
COOLGUY TRUE LOVE REALLY EXISTS AND IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY MY DEAR, IT IS UNFORTUNATE THAT SOME CORRUPT LADIES HAVE POLLUTED OTHER GENUINE ONES BUT SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE, IT EXIST.CHACHA
This has always being a very controversial topic.
True Love does exist but in the Nigerian context you need certain things in place to be able to get that so called true love.
The average Nigerian Girl wants to date a "crested" boy. This applies also to the guys but not as bad as that of the ladies. Most guys only claim to love when they are yet to get to the "Bermuda triangle". As soon as they get there; they leave the love behind; and the rest is history!
Many of the ladies who today claim to have true love for a guy that is not rich is as a result of two things viz:
1. The ladies are not getting any younger and are yet to "hook" a guy; so they have no option than to give true love in order to keep the guy that comes.
2. The ladies who do not fall in the above category and still give true love have discovered that the guy they claim to love has got juicy prospects of making it in life.
There are some other reasons as well but these are the two most common determining factors in the Nigerian context as far as I know. I have closely observed this from our campuses, offices and our society at large.
The only One I believe can give unshakable & unconditional TRUE LOVE is God Almighty! I pray that He alone should change our mindset about this TRUE LOVE issue.
@ Dun.
Well it bore down to the same thing true love does not exist in Nigeria becos I believe true love is unconditional unfortuniately you see that those in Nigeria are based on certain conditions. ;D ;D ;D
Well Mr. Coolguy & Mr. Dagunro,
I do sincerly agree with you guys, but the truth is that THERE IS TRUE LOVE, even in Nigeria, true love that makes you sacrifice things just to make your partner happy.
It has nothing to do with money or age, I'm experiencing it and i see it around me everyday,
Dagunro,I'm happy you said as far as u know, 'cos ur write-up really indicates the little you know.
TRUE LOVE DOES EXIST, FROM GALS & GUYS ALIKE.
I'm a living Witness
Ciao
Hi,
Good for you, Flora, it exsist. I've tried it twice given my all and it just has crumbled at the end.
I think it could exsist cos but as a mere existence- It hardly last. But for now I've found two true love- In Jesus and my career.
Each time this topic of true love is raised, i always likened it to asking if one can still completely trust another person especially the opposite sex.
The naked truth is that if what it takes to nuture love is not in place, my guy, e go get as e bi.
It is said that if a woman calls the hubby sweetheart, the truth is that the guy is actually trying at sweetening that lady`s heart. This love thing between a man and woman also comes from unique(individual) point. It could be pure sexual compartibility ( that's when you see a situation were even if the girl or guy is suffering from the other, they find it hard to seperate) or the other which is more common, the girl especially is comfortable because of all the goodies the guy provides.
In a nutshell there is no relationship without a "BUT". It's only a matter of sacrifice to keep it going.
But with God Almighty there is true love and its unconditional
Dis na my opinion oh!
1luv
@Florafab!
Don't you think it'll sound rather immodest if I claim I know it all? For the fact that I wrote "as far as I know" doesn't mean I know little or next to nothing about love. Well it's your opinion so it doesn't really matter to me.
I am not disputing the fact that true love exists but I tell you that 98% of the so-called true love are hinged on one factor or the other especially here in Nigeria. If you've ever been outside the shores of this country and experienced real love, am sure you'll understand better. If I may ask, can you honestly die in place of the man that claims to love you? If you can that's love but not necessarily True Love!
May be there's something am missing out as far as this topic is concerned that you might be in a better position to educate me on as well as others on this forum. Am sure I'll appreciate it.
If you have found what you can refer to as true love, I honestly thank God for you.
Believe it or Leave it - True Love Sank with Titanic!
For the mere fact that Divorce is on the increase said it all.
True love hardly exist in the Naija context, where love is not based on any condition I doubt this
Mr. Dagunro,
I can confidently tell you of a truth that true love does exist.
What is True Love? True love is simply sacrificing/denying urself of somethings for ur partner and ignoring/shuting your eyes to the flaws of your partner, if you can do these things then yuo have acheived true love.
There is no place where true love cannot work, the only exemption is if you don't find the right person, i.e. casting your pearls before swines.
I wish you luck in your pursuit for true love.
This true love of a thing, e dey oooo but e dey hard to get 4 9ja. as my follow guys don talk, na so e dey happen 4 9ja. if d man don enter aso rock with sweet mouth sometime not realy wit money he go waka leave d babe. for babes if u no get heave pocket u no follow, it will be for money i go obey, for empty pocket i don go.
but when age don com for her head she go try 2 huk up wit a guy and pretend 2 be in true love, we sabi all these thing. or wen she don c d guy get gud future na so she go cul down.
true love dey but na only 5% in 9ja content.
@florafab!
I wrote in my last post that I do not dispute the fact that there is true love but when it comes to the nigerian context, FORGET IT!
One thing that is common with every human being is that we've all got price tags! In otherwords we've got our elastic limits! And in my opinion the only one without elastic limits is God Almighty. This is why I beleive He's the only one that can really give true love.
What is True Love? True love is simply sacrificing/denying urself of somethings for ur partner and ignoring/shuting your eyes to the flaws of your partner, if you can do these things then yuo have acheived true love. - How many really CAN? ???
I wish you luck in your pursuit for true love. - I never wrote or insinuated that I was in pursuit of True Love. ;) 8)
true love for 9jia Mmmmmm.....
My guy na waooooooooooooo..............
Well house, I would really say that true love exists- God apart. Jus as florab has insisted, true love exists when you have the right person to love. We run into the problem of finding true love when we ourselves are not sincere. Love in the first place is not a matter of what you can get. It's all about 'value' and what you can give to keep it. There is one principle that works: offer true love and you get true love. Thats what I would say for now.... One Luv
no such thing as love, in the sense generally applied today. 'love' is a function of mans cognitive abilities, and its largely dependent on what one sees. have you ever heard of a fit and healthy guy or lady falling in love with a leper? guys, abeg reason!
True Talk Indeed!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by jokahome
@Agapeiyke
4 9ija?
e get any girl way really to die for you?
What of if the right person no love you back?
Love is reciprocal as far am concern which involved certain conditions for 9ja.
Those who claim there is true love.
Will U marry someone with HIV or who is impotent?
for where?? Who dey cry dey see road! ;DQuote:
Originally Posted by coolguy
PLEASE WHICH ONE IS TRUE LOVE ?
@ Bannom
I think this is the answer.
What is True Love? True love is simply sacrificing/denying urself of somethings for ur partner and ignoring/shuting your eyes to the flaws of your partner, if you can do these things then yuo have acheived true love.
I pray I see the kind of girl in my life time she is would a billion pounds.
@Coolguy,Quote:
Originally Posted by coolguy
Personally, i can marry someone like dat, provided i did not know before i fell in love, but if after falling, i discover, then im stuck for life.
I'ld rather be with someone like that and be happy, than being with a physically perfect person and not enjoy life.
Do u know marriage can make/mar you for life & eternity?
I have neva wasted my time ,either to answer or reflect on the question 'Does True Luv Exist?' why? cos i can find one! and ,as i guess, it only come to those who (foolishly-cos you've got to close ur eyes to alot of shit!) believe in it!!!!!!
@Florafab
I have your answer quite intresting.
But are you really sure of what you are saying?
Are you trying to tell me you will ignore the flaws of your love one even if he is cheating on you ?
Will you still be sacrificing when you are quite sure it will never be the other way round?
Denying yourself opportunities even when you know that if he where to be in your shoes he doesn't give a dime.
I really doubt this oooo ??? ??? ???
I believ true love exists on the ground of common interest.
Both parties must have a common target that fulfils the dream of both
The best example I think is two people who believe in God whose ultimate concern is how to achieve salvation.
Here true love plays in the area of helping one another in all acts of righteousness and against sins
Their earning, their dwelling, their adornments, their offsprings, their rides and every other thing in their life is viewed as from God and is to be acquired with fear of God and managed with fear of God.
The joy is in how muchg they find themselves successfully executing righteousness in their lives
But am not pastor
@chemistcompnetnovis
I envy your belief chemistcompnetnovis but reality keeps telling us that true either don't exist or is dead.
Chemistcompnetnovis I wish I can believe you and Flora but is difficult >:(
@ florafab!
In as much as I'll love to beleive your claims I still think you should understand the true implications of your claims.
In this part of the world where family pressures abound, do you really think you would be allowed to live all your life with an impotent man? Which implies you will not have your own offspring. I really doubt the possibility here in our society. The only places were such can happen without batting eyelids are in the western world.
@chemistcompnetnovis
I believ true love exists on the ground of common interest.
Both parties must have a common target that fulfils the dream of both - That is were the "factor element" comes into it in the Nigerian context. Which simply implies that "Love" not even "True Love" only exist in the Nigerian context when both parties identify what they can benefit. In my opinion, this is gross selfishness!
i've been reading all ur contributions and am quite amazed at the reactions, the issue of true love has been a very touchy topic, with pple either voting for or against the notion, but the truth of the matter is that everybody's opinion is based on either past experiences or present relationships.
For flora i guess she feels she's found someone and in her heart she feels it's love while for dagunro and coolguy it could either be a bad experience or something, but the truth of the matter is that u guys are all right, true love does and does not exist, cos the same flora might wake up 2mrw only to tell us that love no longer exists, while our cool guy and daungro might find one chic we go scatter dem head come tell us say love na forever, so u see the issue of true love is relative and not definitive.
But for whoever experiences any of the two faces of love, i have this to say keep keeping on cos one day you might just find what u're looking for, but wetin u dey find na him man pickin no know ohhhhhh.
Cheers........
i believe this site was created for us that are unemployed to come together and help one another with job openings, instead of spending the time you have on the internet surfing for new openings,we are here discussing about 'what is true love and if it exists". true love will only exist for you if you believe it exists,above all you must first put your trust in God. a wise man once told me that there are still a few good men and women out there and its only the Lord who knows where they are; if you trust in him to help you find one; you will surely find one. I have found mine,i don't know about the "doubting thomas's" we have. please enough of the true love. ABEG ANY NEW JOB OPENING!!!!!
@ D-gege
Agreed this site is made mainly for job-hunting.
However you will agree with me that not everyone in this site is qualified for all the job on this site.
Others were not call for the on-going interviews.
And there is no new job posting for now.
Some pple however are already working
Don't you think it will be unfair if these set of pple are left behind
In order to make them belong topics like this will always be essential.
Your post on the love issue is your own opinion others have theirs based on their experinces in life. ;D ;D ;D
@saint2ace!
I quite appreciate your opinion.
As for me, I don't have any bad experience as per this topic and that is simply because I very well understand the rules of the game in the Nigerian context. 8)
@d-gege!
Ever heard of 3-D? Projects/Programs usually start off as 1-D and grow to become 3-D and stuffs like that.
This site we all know is for job openings but don't you think it will be rather too boring if there are no forums were we can exchange ideas on other issues rather than job openings. There are a lot of lessons to learn from this other issues that will be useful to all of us now or in the future.
Not everyone here is looking for a job and not everyone here will get a job through this forum and I strongly believe you know that even if you fail to admit it.
If next time you visit this site and find a topic which you have had a wonderful experience and you believe people can share from. Wouldn't you contribute?
The key point here is that we need to interact with ourselves on other issues other than looking for a job. And I think we can start from a forum like this. ;)
Dagunro my brother, i no mean am the way wey u talk am oh na just opinion i dey try express and i only use the examples take pass the massage, i no mean say na so the thing be abeg take am easy with me oh, i never marry talk less of to born pickin, so make u no beat me abeg.
Don't mind me just trying to spices up the discussion but bros no be everything wey person talk na him u go reply oh, haba take am easy u hear.
Peace and Love to the house at least till we find our dreams or our dreams find us.
@ Saint2ace
My opinion is based on reality not on personal experinace.
We see it from friends and foes alike and from our environment.
Quote:
Originally Posted by saint2ace
....I dey feel u saint2ace! No hard feelings o. I just dey try clear up things. You know say other people fit no understand am the way you present am. ;) ;D
Anyhow sha, No wayo! 8)
Thanks Dagunro for ur understanding, hope to hear more from you guys.
As far as I know, TRUE LOVE REALLY EXIST. And it begins with you. Do you TRULY love others?