Topic: The Best Age in Marriage

Hello,

I think in my own candid opinion, a man shoud be older than his wife with a maximum of 8years to a minimum of 4years,my reason,in relationships between a couple who have age difference of lets say 2 to 3years, u see they tend to think alike cos their age is just within the same bracket but when the gap is like i said above there is always a difference.i will like to use a friend of mine as example, she use to date a guy who was just 3years older than she is, u see,they reason alike and do things people within that age does but presently,her fiance is 8years older than she is and from what she is saying she has never enjoyed any relationship the way she is now.
Another reason is that women tend to look older than men becos of the fact that once they start having kids, their looks change,so it is advisable for women to marry men who is their senior with atleast 8 to 4years.chao

Jeanie, i dont agree with you,what one needs in a marriage is psychological,emotional and financial maturity, to me i think 3 yrs is still ok,for me am 3yrs older and i can tell you its working out good,its depends, but not all about age,someone younger can reason and behave maturely than some elderly person so it depends on the people inolved.

Originally Posted by thunde212

Jeanie, i dont agree with you,what one needs in a marriage is psychological,emotional and financial maturity, to me i think 3 yrs is still ok,for me am 3yrs older and i can tell you its working out good,its depends, but not all about age,someone younger can reason and behave maturely than some elderly person so it depends on the people inolved.

Thank u, age is just a numba like they use 2 say.. a 25 yr old guy can be as matured as a 35 yr old..maturity counts no doubt... it just depends on u as an individual and how u want to go about your relationship.

Like me am 2 months older than my babe and she gives me the respect like am 8 yrs older..

In my course of research to assist the researcher in need of this house opinion.
The passion feelings ffor both is never and can never be the same.
I will all agree with me that men 80% of those men who flirt around are those married ladies of close age bracket of about 0-3yrs different

I will still like to gt the contribution of the entire NHJ
this willl surely help both the researcher in question and millions of Naija people out there
Thanks

Benjamin

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER PERIO
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