None can be mortgaged for the other.If u hav a high-paying job and u dnt have a loving wife or happy family back home,then ur everlasting joy is gonna be once upon a time.As a Warri man,i will go for the two of them but when faced with the decision of choice,then I will choose a loving wife cos thats where my joy lies.I would rather get stressed at work and be always happy whenever its time to go home. -ODELI 3:16, 08069471437