Should I dump him or stay put?

House pls ur contribution will be really helpful.
God a friend here in lag. her fiance is very nice, he does almost everything for her. She is a graduate but he is not (he is still in the univesity). this guy runs a call centre and he is also looking for a job. but this lady still sticks to him despite all the insults she gets from her friends.
some days ago , they had a quarrel bcos of the way the guys bones his face which the lady doesn't like, the lady then said that she had seen the way guys take care of their fiances and the guy flared up and said the girl must have experienced it that she has started jumping around.
this got my friend angry and she is contemplating to leave the guy. this is a relationship that has been on for 11yrs now.
pls wat advise can u give to her, cos i myself am confused. dont know wat to tell her.

What has happen in the past 11yrs? has the relationship been bad,nostalgic or rossy?.

the relationship had been good, but of course, there were ups and downs that's normal in every rel

This story is not really clear
Are they fighting cos of the facial expression of the guy? or cos the guy does not treat the lady well?. These are two different matter

Anyway, its not enough to break an 11 year relationship. Its like a life time. I think one of the partner wants out and is just looking for an excuse or the story is incomplete.

Dont dump each other, stay cos the ........... you know is better than the one you dont. SURULERE (patience is very profitable, and so far its true in all things)
God Bless
TBABY

hey girl,its good u came out 2 seek for opinion.11yrs is such along time.long coutship is very bad.plsssssssssssss tell her 2 end the relationship n start allover.the signs are there,dat he doesnt want u again.that face frowning is jst an indication that he cannot pretend inside anymore and now its showing on the outside little by little.honestly its not worth hanging on u.u can part as friends but let it end there.dont allow urself 2 be used any time he feel like exercising his manhood.u are worth a lot more than u think.there are better guys out der.dont sell urself short 4 him.its nt that am talkn from experience or beef guys,thats just how it is.embrace christ ,pray and he will will guide better.try 2 make urself happy n mix with good friends.i know it will be painful but believe me u will get over it sooner than u expect n u will be glad u did.God bess u girl

@nevieus u sound as if u already had an experience...u cant jus end 11yrs of courtship like dat and part as friends believe me dey wud b enemies...@ poster, ur friend shud sit her man down and talk, nt hidin any feelings she mite see why her man has being behavin dat way...

Thanks house.
God bless u all

gentlecheta,listen .its nt that v had such experience, but its jst that the truth is bitter.
girl pls dnt let 2mins sentiments destroy ur futeurwe ,u can handle it maturedly in the sence dat u will come out ontops n ok.my exp was 4 about 3ys twice .listen dont be fooled and say u want 2 talk bout it n be 2gether.move on with ur life.if after 11yrs he is lik edis,howe do u tink it will be later.u knw u r a queen ndeserve 2 be happy.i know that tolerance comes into place but pls be wise.May God help u,if u insist on goin on .its up 2 u.yry n talk 2 a pastor for more advice.

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