anyway i am a free thinker but i still believe that any focus person in life must have a guide nomata how big you think you are. just look at how big a ship is but its being controlled by a little rudder. for u to be successful u must be controlled and be disciplined i kind of believe in these resolutions weda new yr or old yr remember that absolute frredom is a practical impossibility and theoretical absurdity so make a choice and let it guide you.
Wow, it's been a while
I know the issue is not in makin resolutions but making a change about u. Imagine saying Happy New You instead of Happy New Year. It means the Year has already been planned and Blessed by God, it's up to us to handle things well so we get what He has for us cos since God doesn't lie and He has the Best plans for His children, any mistakes are our fault.
So it's more about a change in our attitudes, a decision and commitment to stick to them no matter what realizing that we cant do it ourselves except God helps us and taking things one step/day at a time!