Topic: FOR D LADIES

If A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck NO..., you CANT "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be . at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. (Hmm...i never did )
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.(hmmmm! Point there!)
He is a man, nothing more nothing less. ...( )
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
Never let a man define who you are. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromis e is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships. ..there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. ..look for someone
complimentary. ..not supplementary.
Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr..
Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows
where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he could take it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. (hmmmmmmmmmm! ...nice! )Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies. You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
(Men....can you rily say u r different ....Hmmmmmm! Let's see now.Oya! Sheck ywa sef..na na na na!) ... I'm waiting...
See ehn... fellas,

Someone forwarded this to me and I thought it was
worth sharing.You know me now...i mean...you shd know by now...if u never did... i mean...u've been in my mailing list a while...iiiiight. .. ...
Great advice though...but do we follow it when we are in love(or..infatuated )? Well...you tell!!!
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to
forget them.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT!!...

nice one sis,very soulsearching but i seriously dont agree with these last two lines....

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. (hmmmmmmmmmm! ...nice! )Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

my question is.."can anybody whether man or woman give you everything you need??"........can a human being provide evrything you need?
please do help me answer that.