IT ALL DEPENDS ON UNDERSTANDING AND WHO THE WOMAN IN QUESTION IS.THERE ARE STILL VIRTUOUS WOMEN IN THIS WORLD.IF SHE IS GOOD SHE GOES A LONG WAY TO CARRY THE FAMILY WITHOUT OUTSIDERS KNOWING AND ALL GLORY AND PRAISES STILL GOES TO THE HUSBAND. FIND OUT THE CATEGORY YRS BELONG.IF U SENSE SHE IS AUTHORITATIVE, BOSSY, A BRAGGER ETC, I ADVICE U DON'T GO AHEAD COS SHE WILL CONTROL U, BELITTLE U AS A MAN, AND EVEN TURN YR CHILDREN AGAINST U.SO THE CHOICE IS YRS.TAKE TIME ND STUDY HER THEN TAKE YR DECISION COS GOD HAS MADE MAN THE HEAD OF A HOME SO BE WISE NT 2 LOOSE THAT 4 ANY REASON.