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i ve two ladies so close to me..one is beautiful and she is not doing anything and the second is the opposite of the first.i mean she is ugly nd she is working.i feel shy walking with her and am so proud of the beautiful one.now i want to settle down.pls house who will i go for as both have good character and they love me so dearly
First of all,it's not nice calling anyone ugly since we were all made in God's image,although some babes ugly sha!
Since it's the cash that's still keeping u with d ugly 1,the solution's very simple:marry ms ugly&keep beauty as a babe.chikena
Wat kind of advice is this?Of what religion are you?I dnt know of any religion that supports adultery.U SHOULD B ASHAMED OF URSELFQuote:
Originally Posted by Canon
Ashamed for disproving the 'u can't have your cake and eat it' theory?NEVER!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by florafab
my brother let your heart speak for you.
marriage is all about love and not who is pretty or ugly
deep inside of you , u know who u love, don't look at the material things or the body structure.
every single man have his missing rib, so pls be wise to make a SOUND choice.
GOD BE WITH YOU!!
hmmmm, marriage isn't all about beauty u know,mind u, with my research, i have come to the conclusion that what ugly babes lack in beauty, they have in attitude,is it beauty u wanna marry or love.i know it is good to marry someone cute but don't let that be the yardstick of wanting to marry the otherone.
Ugokem
you know best what you are looking for in a woman, so you alone can make the choice. Beauty is relative.
But na wa 4 u o, u wan marry n u still de date 2 babes, abi? U serious so. ;)
@ apostle and jeanie, u guys are ahead in this game(Relship). U ve said it all. @ poster, the ball is now in ur court. So use ur head and avoid a lifetime mistake cos once u say I do, it's FINISH.
The first thing you should do is to define to yourself what you really want.
This is because you don't seem to really know what exactly you want. (My opinion).
What gives you the impression that when the "beautiful" one gets something doing she'll still love you the same? Knowing fully well that a lot of guys will be after her.
What makes a lady/woman beautiful is not the physical appearance only but the character, intelligence and a high level of understanding. This is not to say that the "ugly" one has all these but, my point here is that you need to look beyond thier physical appearance as well as know exactly what you want before making a decision.
Guy dont make d same mistake im paying for.
I have always been d choosy type,my ideal woman must be this must be that,n look at me now,5ft,11,comfortable,handsome,intelligent n smart(evry woman's dream)but I DONT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND AT 28.
Y Am i in this dilemma?i put my own desires 1st.
I want u 2 do me a favour,go read Proverbs 30,dat is d answer 2 ur question(A VIRTOUS WOMAN).
I wana share an xperience wit u,all my uncles r sucessful(an compt of immigrations,3 r naturalized americans n britons)but wat is their albatross?CHOICE OF WOMEN.They went after SUCESSFUL WOMEN n i bet u their homes r in turmoil,n i pray daily that i wld rather be poor with a good woman than be BIG BOYS lik them with Jezebels as wives.
I had a retinue of HIGH CLASS LADIES-bankers,media executives n airline hostess,but bro i had to do away with em when i saw that they were nt wat i wanted.
Now im looking for a homely and presentable lady n pls dont forget the place of GOD only He can do it.
On a lighter note,remember that u have 2 n i dnt have any(a bird in hand is worth 2 in d bush)so think hard n pray to God 4 guidance n pls seek wise n Godly counsel.
@Poster D ultimate decision on whom to marry should come from u but in my opinion, i think u should picture ur ideal woman(Wife) whom u want to spend the rest of ur life with & work towards that bearing and never allow societal demands change ur horizon cos its he who wears the shoe that knows where it itches. Best of luck in ur decision.
@Poster D ultimate decision on whom to marry should come from u but in my opinion, i think u should picture ur ideal woman(Wife) whom u want to spend the rest of ur life with & work towards that bearing and never allow societal demands change ur horizon cos its he who wears the shoe that knows where it itches. Best of luck in ur decision.
My brother, I don't know if you are a christian or a muslem, but to any religion that you may belong, I will advise you to seek the face of God in prayer. He is the one that removed a rib from yours and created a woman with it. Any he is the only one that can locate or choose the woman for you. We human being don't see beyond our nose and there is different between good's choice and God's choice. Note that it is not things all that glitter that are gold.
@felixodeli, why are u always posting twice?lol
Even Okocha is so good in the game that he was named twice(JAY JAY),lol. Actually,i do make all my contributions and posts frm my phone so at times the network affects it.At times it does appear more than that.All inconveniences highly regretted.Quote:
Originally Posted by jeanie
@Ugokem
My dear brother, Marriage transcends feeling,emotional attachment and pity for any one.It is a matter of choice.
HMMMMMMMM
Ugly vs Beauty
You said Beauty is not doing anything but she loves you
Are you really sure that in the next 35 years you will be proud to walk along the street holding her hands !!!
Are you really sure she has deep affection for you or your money
Are you really sure that if you go blind now or paralyse(God forbid) she will stand by you at the hospital
Are you really sure that if she was offered a million dolars she will not go and sleep with another man just for a night
Are you really sure that if you travelled out for a year she will not sleep with some one else expecially if that person is more caring, richer and gives her what you don't have
My brother
do you know that in the next fifty years this so call beauty you are seeing now would have turned to a mirrage
The breast that is standing would have long fall away to sleep
The beautiful face would have been covered with rinkles
the hair would have turned white
all the physical things that amused you would have passed off to time
The sister Ugly
Do you really think she is ugly ?
As a man thinketh so he is !!!!!
If she is industrious she will soon get a better man
She will get a man that will be proud of her
Are you ready to loose that
If i were you
i would take whom i really love not for Beauty nor for Hardwork
However be prayerful for God knows all things.
I pray he will lead you
One Luv
Jibowu
Ugokem, i will advice you to settle for the one u are proud of cos if u dnt u might end up in adultery. Even though the beautiful one is not working for now but i believe she will tomorrow as long as she has the qualification.
You can help her become who u want in that aspect.
Cheers.