wonders shall never cease !I went for an interview and one of the men on the panel actually ask to sleep wit me. what i'm i to do? The job is well paid.
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wonders shall never cease !I went for an interview and one of the men on the panel actually ask to sleep wit me. what i'm i to do? The job is well paid.
just pray that the Lord should change the man's mind towards u, there is nothing He cannot do. If the job is urs, i assure u, that u re going to get it. But never u sell ur body just for a job that pays well ok! Goodluck girl.
johomikel,you have a masuline name are you a guy or a lady?
John Mikel, re u male or female? put ur interest in prayers.
Nothing is impossible.
na GOD first
Men, like his type, are everywhere looking for prey.For whatever reason, don't allow any man to use you for his selfish end.How would you feel if you lose your pride to such a man?Remember,your body is a temple of God and you are to honour God in your body.Put God first,if that job is yours,you will eventually get it.
u ll just consider how you ll feel loosing the job and being used too. just challenge God in prayers its not a new thing afterall u passed thru the university
Pray to God and tell the man to go jump into a lake.If the job is yours,it will be yours.
If that's God's job for you ,nobody can block your way without being crushed.Stand firm.IMMANU-EL.
dont give in to the pressure ,if the job is for you ,u definitely will get otherwise better offers are waiting for you.
the man might just be trying u,pls my dear just hold on to God ,he will not fail u
Like endy said, imagine d guy using u and not giving u d job, if u're the best no company would afford to loose u, afterall that's why they looked for u, U'll get it if u deserve it, i'm sure his not the only guy on the panel, so he's not the sole authority to decide. If u enter by sleeping with that man, word might go round, and u'ld have to sleep thru to goe promoted evrytime. Besides, God is watching if u can pass this trial, He'll take u to greater heights knowing u won't fall in smaller things like this!
hold on to ur principle if u pray with faith there is nothing impossible 4 my God. mean while Whatsgonabe must gonabe
@ poster,u did not specify if it was a group panel or an individual thing, but wateva d case may ve bn,just hold on to ur principles,do not let go,cos any job dat wld turn u into an object for sex is not worth it, it wld only tag u as a glorified prostitute and u wld foreva battle with ur conscience.
Hold ur head high and walk away from dat 'evil man' bcos i know dat d Almighty is up there lookin down on u and knows ur plight,he ll definitely give u d best.
It may tak a while,sooner or later,bt i blieve His time is d best.
Am talkin from xperience,though it took a while bt now i am flyin 2 places i neva knew i wld b in life.
Its up 2 u,Cheers
Dude!
Go ahead n sleep wiv him...
Yo!
Like i say.... its alll for the greater good..lol
Damn!
Its obvious u considering it.. so wat do u need us for?!
@dhuny,u shld nt necessarily ve jumped into conclusion
Here's a person in need of advise and not in need of scoldin, and besides her post is very clear considering d issue of increasing unemployment rate in d country.
I think she feels she is close to landin a BIG JOB only 4 it to appear be slipin away jst for nothing.
So common guy,show some love and care,afterall this thread is meant 2 educate and guide us all in our career path.
One love
SORRY 4 DAT
i'm wondering why an interviewer would do dat, especially one in a panel. did he corner u or what? did u dress indecently or he wants to whisk away ur destiny? be careful ooo! ur future and soul comes first b4 anything else. don't trade ur body and soul for some cheap spiker. if u give once, u'll live to give him gratification till u r worn out.
opt out if u must!! d future holds bigger and better things.